Expectant Waiting

When working with someone who faces processing challenges, there's a hidden superpower we can tap into: patient, expectant waiting. It's about stepping into their world and attuning to the subtle cues within the silence.

In those moments of stillness, we can uncover a wealth of knowledge and strength. We can connect, encourage, and wait for a response – all without saying a word. Many of our music therapy songs are designed with built-in guidance, making spoken instruction completely unnecessary. And instead of saying "Good job! Awesome! I’m so proud of you!" when they do exactly what you knew they could, try showing it with your body language and your facial expressions. Save all those beautiful words for the very end, and sing some sort of celebratory Good Job Song together. This is your moment to wrap them up in lyrics filled with joy, love, and pride.

Expectant waiting isn't just a technique, it's a mindset shift. When we embrace silence, holding space with anticipation and encouragement, we create an environment where authentic communication can blossom in its own time. And this fosters deeper connection, understanding, and unlocks hidden potential within those who communicate differently.

But remember, the power of silence isn't passive. It's an active, expectant waiting that invites connection and empowers communication on their terms. I know this is easier said than done, so I encourage you to start with one activity a day where you are practicing expectant waiting with great intention, patience and grace - for yourself and for your kiddo. I’d love to hear how this goes for all of you, so please share your successes and challenges.